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YOU do not have lipstick on the collar to find out the he is the type pendua. Through a simple test, you will be able to reveal the potential of the he had an affair.
Learn tips for your Cosmopolitan launched several investigative strategies to ensure the characteristics of the couple having an affair, the following:
The first signs
Does he tend to spoiled? Has he ever cheated when exams or pay someone to complete the coursework? If he is accustomed to pass his life with ease (money), he believes that the rule does not apply to him. He was so easy to get a dimau, so why should stop it, including about women?
"He's probably cheating. Because, he thought proper to meet all needs, no matter who will he hurt," says Shirley Glass, Ph.D., psychologist, infidelity expert and author of Not Just Friends: Protecting Your Relationship from Infidelity and Healing from the Trauma of Betrayal.
"He may have little understanding about how you will be angry if found cheating because he's too selfish to think about your feelings," he added.
So, how do know he has the potential cheating? Shirley suggests, notice how he faces a problem. Does he blame others when a mistake rather than take responsibility themselves? If he can not see how his actions affect others, he would not say, "Well, what about the feelings of my girlfriend?" when seduced by another woman.
The second signal
Does he work more with women? Does he often came home late, at the office, dinner with clients, or business trip? Did he make a lot of money? Is a good thing out with a man who had ambitions, at least you and the kids will not be difficult to ask for expensive goods, but the office environment can thus pave the way affair.
According to Shirley, studies show that most people having an affair with co-workers. "Not only people with similar interests together every day, but time spent together is usually when they are in the most energetic and best condition," he explained.
Unfortunately, the larger the purse, he will be more busy and comfortable with my friends office. According to a study conducted in January Halper, Ph.D., author of Quiet Desperation: The Truth About Successful Men, rich men cheat more often than men with a mediocre income, because money is a powerful magnet power comes the temptation of women.
But before the suspect is not unreasonable, be aware that the career-oriented man who just spent time with work, not by the secretary or girlfriends. If he sounded happy when you call during the day, invites you into his office and introduced him to friends, he's probably true. Except, he is more closed with his work.
The third sign
Is he trying to spread the charm to work colleagues, your brother, or a store clerk? When you go to a party, whether he wanted to be center of attention? Your friends and family love him, and he always managed to entertain you. How could you not love him?
But according to Shirley, mouth sweet to watch, especially when he did so in women. "He met many charming women and easy for him to win their hearts. So even if his intention is not cheating to bed, he was probably willing, because it was difficult for him to refuse," he said.
To determine whether the charming man you are cheating or not, watch how he interacts. A man who does not want to play the eye with another woman would be more comfortable with his mobile phone when you're with a female friend, for example.
The fourth sign
Did he used to hang out with single men? Does his friends insist he join the activities of men? Did his friends have a problem of loyalty in a relationship? A recent study on 37,000 men and women showed that when he saw people around him drop out of the pair of them, he tends to do the same.
"My friends tease her male may not only about actually going to ask her cheating. At the very least, they will cover up the affair from you," said Shirley.
However, no need to forbid hanging out with friends single if he is able to maintain loyalty to the relationship. "He should be able to maintain a balance between you and his friends," said Shirley.
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